If you plan on leaving money to minor children in your Last Will and Testament, you’ll have an important issue to consider: Who will be in charge of managing the inheritance and keeping the child’s money safe from being lost or squandered if the parents pass away?
Estate planning is often easier for married couples in this situation. One spouse leaves everything to the other spouse, and the surviving parent will take care of the children. But what happens if something happens to both parents, either at the same time or within a short span of time?
Unfortunately, a Nashville Will lawyer can tell you that there is no easy answer. Young beneficiaries usually require someone else to be named to manage their inheritance because they are legally unable (as in the case of a minor) or too immature to manage the inheritance themselves.
Parents often will ask the people named as guardians to also take responsibility for their children’s money and property. However, if you do not name anyone to manage finances for your children, the probate court will do it for you by appointing someone – perhaps a complete stranger – to serve as the children’s financial guardian. The financial guardian selected by the probate court must report frequently and has limited authority to make decisions.
It’s also important to note that, unless otherwise noted, children who are 18 or older will have complete control of the property and money left to them. That being said, you should consider raising the age at which your child gains financial responsibility to age 25 or older. This reduces the risk of your child’s inheritance being mismanaged or lost.
A Revocable Living Trust is often the best way to manage your children’s inheritance so that they do not receive a lump sum of money before they are mature enough to handle it. A Revocable Living Trust allows you to raise the age or layout key milestones in which the children receive their money. It also allows you to specify a trustee who oversees the distribution of funds to your children according to your wishes for their future and how their inheritance is to be spent.
If you have any questions about naming a person to manage a minor child’s finances, or if you are interested in learning more about setting up a Revocable Living Trust, please give our law firm a call at (615) 846–6201 to set up a consultation with our Nashville will lawyer.
Families today come in many beautiful and diverse forms. Whether you’re part of a blended family, a queer couple raising children, or a co-parenting arrangement that doesn’t fit the traditional mold, estate planning becomes especially important—and sometimes, a little more complicated.
One question that comes up frequently is whether a second-parent adoption is necessary or recommended. Here’s what you need to know—and how to decide if it’s the right move for your family.
What Is Second-Parent Adoption?
Second-parent adoption is a legal process where one parent adopts their partner’s biological or legally adopted child without terminating the first parent’s legal rights. It’s commonly used in families where both parents are raising a child, but only one is legally recognized as the parent under state law.
For example, in some states, if a child is born to a married same-sex couple, both spouses are not automatically recognized as legal parents. If a child is born through assisted reproductive technology, the non-biological parent may not be on the birth certificate. In blended families, a stepparent may be acting as a full-time parent without any legal status. Without legal parental rights, the second parent may have no say in medical decisions, no custody rights in the event of separation, and no automatic inheritance rights without a proper estate plan.
Why Legal Recognition Matters
Even if your day-to-day family life functions seamlessly, legal recognition ensures your parental role is protected—especially in moments of crisis. A second-parent adoption:
Grants full parental rights, including custody and decision-making power
Gives your child legal access to benefits like Social Security or health insurance through you
It can also protect your family if you move to a state with different laws or face challenges from extended family members in times of stress or grief.
Alternatives and Supplements to Adoption
Second-parent adoption isn’t the only tool available. Depending on your state and circumstances, other legal documents can help:
Custody or parenting agreements can be drafted to reflect your roles and expectations.
Healthcare proxies and powers of attorney ensure your partner can make decisions in an emergency.
Still, none of these carry the same weight or permanence as legal parentage through adoption.
Is Second-Parent Adoption Right for You?
It depends on several factors:
Your state laws: Some states automatically recognize both parents in a marriage or civil union, others do not.
Your family structure: Are you co-parenting with a former partner? Are you a step-parent raising a child from a prior relationship?
Your long-term goals: Do you want your partner or spouse to have full parental rights in every legal sense?
An experienced estate planning attorney can help you and your blended family understand the landscape and weigh your options.
Final Thoughts
Every family deserves the peace of mind that comes from knowing your legal rights match your lived reality. Whether it’s through second-parent adoption, estate planning tools, or both, we’re here to help you build a plan that fits your unique family.If you have questions about your next steps, let’s talk.Click here to schedule an initial call today!
If you’re closely related to someone who has recently passed away, it’s likely that you’ll be in line to inherit at least a part of their estate. It can be a complicated process, depending on the circumstances. To make this process easier for you, we’ve outlined some things you need to know as a potential inheritor of a Tennessee estate.
1. Take the time to grieve
If you’ve just lost a loved one, the first thing you need to do is take the time to grieve. This could be overwhelming, especially if you were close to the person who has passed away. You may not even know how to react if you’ve been left a large inheritance. Taking the time to grieve the death of a loved one is important, and you should not be pressured into making decisions. Also, don’t rush through any of the legal processes outlined in this article. There’s no need to hurry to open an estate, and you should make sure that you’re given enough time to make well-thought-out decisions and take care of things properly. All of the necessary information will be available to you once you are ready.
2. Take the time to understand the terms of the will
Another important thing to do is take the time to understand the terms of the will. If there was a will, then you’ll need to know who was named as the executor (aka personal representative) of the estate. You’ll also need to know whether there are any special provisions in the will, like leaving a specific piece of property to a specific person. You’ll want to know where the original will is being kept, as well as the executor’s contact information so you can stay informed about the progress of the estate.
Once the will is probated, there will be a record of it that you can access at any time. You’ll be able to see the contents of the will, as well as the names of everyone who was named as a beneficiary. This is something that you’ll need to keep in mind when communicating with the people who were named in the will.
3. Find out if there is any debt included with your share of the inheritance
Debt follows the person who incurred it, so a person’s debt usually belongs to their estate- not those inheriting from them. However, if your loved one left you anything with a debt tied to it, you may have to figure out how to resolve the debt before accepting the inheritance.
This includes things like car loans, mortgages, or other debts that your loved one may have had when they passed away. Even if you inherit something with debt tied to it, you do not have to inherit debt. You can choose not to accept the item or to sell it and take whatever it is worth after the debt is paid.
It’s important that you know if there is any debt included with your inheritance so that you can plan accordingly. It’s possible that you could get a loan to cover the cost of the debt and then pay it off gradually over time.
In my personal and professional opinion, it usually makes sense to take over a loan on something that will appreciate, such as real estate, but not on any depreciating assets like a vehicle. However, this is something that will have to be decided in consideration of your personal situation.
4. Find out what happens during the probate process
The probate process is the process of opening a probate estate, gathering all assets owned, and distributing the assets from the estate. During the probate process, the executor of the estate will file the will and any other documents that might be necessary with the court and has the responsibility of distributing the assets according to the terms of the will. These documents will become part of the public record. The executor of the estate will open an estate account with the court, and you can check in on it and see what progress is being made as the assets are distributed.
5. Check for Inherited IRA Rules and Taxes
If you inherit retirement accounts from a loved one, you will need to make a decision about how and when to cash out the account.
While spouses can easily “roll” retirement accounts to the surviving spouse, this is not an option for anyone else. As the non-spouse beneficiary of a retirement account, you have two options: (1) take all money out immediately or (2) you can “stretch” the distributions up to ten years.
Because most retirement accounts are “tax deferred” accounts, you will want to explore the tax consequences of any retirement investment accounts that you inherit. If your family member invested into a 401k, IRA, or similar type of account, they did not pay taxes when contributing to their retirement. That means that taxes must be paid when the money is taken out.
The financial institution will usually help you by holding an estimated tax payment but you will still want to make sure you are aware of what you will need to pay at tax time to account for those inheritances, no matter how you took the distribution.
6. Allow time for the Executor to carry out their duties
As soon as you’re named as a beneficiary to a will and the estate has been opened through probate, you can expect that the Executor will begin to take care of things, such as contacting creditors and making arrangements for the sale of any real estate. It’s important that you give them some time to do what they need to do. Expect that it will take about a year for the entire process to run its course. This is a rough estimate and will vary depending on how complicated the estate is, how many assets there are, if any estate tax is due, and whether there are any potential disputes. The Executor will keep you updated on progress and let you know when you can expect to receive the inheritance.
7. Communicate with the Executor
Keep in regular communication with the Executor of the estate. Ask if there is anything you need to do or can do to help. If you have questions, make sure that you ask the Executor and get the answers that you need to the point you understand. You can also ask to speak with the attorney for the estate. If you are having issues with the Executor getting back to you, or you suspect there are difficulties, it may be worth consulting a lawyer on your own.
8. Decide how you want to handle your share
Before you get a check, decide how you want to spend any money that you receive. Maybe you and your deceased loved one had already talked through what they hoped would happen with any funds they left you. Many people have a financial goal that their inheritance will help them reach, such as buying a house or investing in their own retirement. Some families use the money to take a trip together and make memories. Having a plan is the best way to make sure that your loved one’s legacy is honored.
9. Update your Plan
One of the most important things to consider is that receiving an inheritance could cause your own estate planning to need to be updated or revised. If you are currently the beneficiary of a trust or other estate planning document, you should contact your estate planning attorney to determine whether or not you need to make any updates.
If you are looking for a Middle Tennessee probate attorney or to create a Tennessee will, click here to schedule an initial call with us.
As far as we know, we only live once – and we never know when it’s going to end. It’s important to plan so you can prepare.
You can start 2024 off strong by getting your affairs in order.
1. Create an Estate Plan
First, decide whether you want a will, a trust, or both. Some people opt for a will and a living trust, but it’s up to you what you choose. If you want an attorney to talk over your options, we’d be happy to do that!
You can also decide whether you want a durable power of attorney for finances (in case you’re not able to make financial decisions).
2. Plan for Your Healthcare
You can also consider whether you want to create an advance directive for your care. Most advance directives have a living will and durable power of attorney for healthcare.
The living will tells doctors what kind of care you wish to accept or reject when it comes to emergency treatment, and durable power of attorney lists the person you trust for your care should you become unable to communicate.
3. Organize Your Important Documents
Once you’ve prepared all of your important papers, organize them and put them all in one place.
Here are some examples of papers that you should keep together.
Personal Information
Personal info is needed for identification purposes and is best kept together so your family can be prepared when they need it.
Social security number
Date and place of birth
Names and addresses of spouse and children
Location of important legal certificates (birth/death, marriage/divorce, citizenship, adoption)
Employers and dates of employment
Education and military records
Names and phone numbers of religious contacts
Group memberships, awards
Names and numbers of close friends, relatives, doctors, lawyers, advisors
Health Information
Emergencies happen – and when you’re not prepared, your family has to scramble to find what your medications are, etc. Keep them all in the same place and be sure that your loved ones know where to look.
List of any ongoing conditions and treating doctors’ names
Current prescriptions (keep this list up-to-date)
Durable power of attorney for healthcare
Advance directive
Health insurance info, policy and phone number
Financial Information
Your finances will help family members better understand what financial resources they can draw from to help you with your care, should you need it.
Sources of income/assets
Social security benefits information
Insurance info (car, home, life, long-term care) with policies and phone numbers
Bank and account information
Investment income
Copy of the most recent income tax return
Location of most up-to-date will with original signatures
Liabilities, including what’s owned and when payment is due
Mortgages/debts, how and when they’re paid
Original deed of trust for home
Car title and registration
Credit and debit card numbers and names
Safe deposit box and key number
If you’re looking for a place to keep all of these, let us know. We’re happy to offer LawSafe memberships for a reasonable rate to help keep track of all the not-so-little things that your loved ones may need if there is an emergency or end-of-life event.
4. Talk with Your Loved Ones
Once you have everything in one place, tell your loved one where to find your information. Be sure to also tell your loved ones about your plans – you don’t want your family to find out after the fact that you’ve selected someone they don’t know as your Personal Representative!
You can also let your doctor know about advance care plans, and, if applicable, give your doctor permission to discuss your care with your family.
5. Review Plans Regularly and Update
Once you’ve done all the hard work (it takes time getting all that paperwork together), be sure to review your plans annually. If you’ve had a major change happen, you should consider revisiting your plans as well, to make any necessary updates.
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When it comes to estate planning, you’ve probably heard advice like, “You need a trust” or “Avoid probate at all costs.” While these ideas might hold true for some, not everyone needs a trust, and probate can sometimes be an appropriate step. Understanding these topics can help you make informed decisions for your family. Let’s break down why:
What Is a Trust?
A trust is a legal arrangement that allows you to transfer assets to a Trustee. This person manages the trust for those you want to benefit. One of the advantages is that it helps avoid probate—the court-supervised process of transfering your assets after death. Trusts can provide an additional level of privacy, speed up the transfer of assets, and offer protection for your loved ones in difficult times.
Disadvantages of a Trust
While trusts offer many benefits, they aren’t essential for everyone. For example:
Trusts Can Be Expensive Setting up a trust requires meeting with an attorney to prepare the trust documents and potentially hiring professionals to administer it, which can be costly. For some individuals, these expenses outweigh the potential benefits, particularly if there are simpler ways to achieve the same goals. For example, if your family is in agreement, the Court can waive the requirement of making your assets public.
Trusts Need Active Management Once a trust is created, it needs ongoing attention. You have to transfer assets into the trust, update it as your financial situation changes, and ensure that it remains aligned with your wishes. This level of involvement is unnecessary if simpler tools can efficiently achieve your goals.
How to Save Money on Your Estate Plan with a Will vs. Trust
You’ve probably heard that you want to avoid probate. But in many cases, it’s not as bad as you may think. In fact, sometimes it’s a good thing!
In Some States, Probate Is Streamlined Each state has its own process for probate. Some states, like California and Florida, are complex enough that having a trust is a good idea for most people. However, in Tennessee, probate can be relatively quick, inexpensive, and straightforward, making it less of a concern. Of course, it’s a good idea to listen to your attorney about what is best for your family.
It Provides Oversight Probate ensures that a court oversees the distribution of assets, which can be beneficial for resolving disputes or ensuring that creditors are paid. For families with potential disagreements, this legal oversight might prevent further conflicts.
Not All Assets Go Through Probate Assets such as life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and some jointly owned property pass directly to beneficiaries. If your estate consists of these types of assets, putting them in a trust may not make much sense. In fact, many people structure their estate planning so that nothing will go through probate and then use a will as a back-up plan. (Because you know we always want to have a back-up plan!)
Is a Trust Right for Me?
While it may not be for everyone, a trust may be a good choice if:
You have a large or complex estate.
You own property in multiple states (which could trigger probate in each state).
You want to maintain privacy regarding the distribution of your assets.
You have minor children or beneficiaries who require special care.
Depending on your situation, your attorney may even recommend using a trust as a part of your will, which can be less expensive and time-consuming than creating a stand-alone trust.
Estate planning is not one-size-fits-all, and the decision to create a trust should be tailored to your unique situation. Your estate planning attorney should be able to help you weigh the costs and benefits, address any “what ifs, and explain how the plan reflects your goals. Ultimately, the key is to create a plan that provides peace of mind for you and your loved ones, whatever form that may take.
If you have questions about trusts or other estate planning tools, reach out to our office. We’re here to help you navigate the process and make the best choices for your future.
This week we are going to talk about why you need a medical power of attorney, even if your spouse is available to make decisions for you.
In a medical emergency, there is an assumption that your spouse would be the health care agent, make health care decisions, and deal with the hospital and doctors on your behalf. However, what happens when a spouse is separated, no longer wants to be in contact, or doesn’t agree with your health care values?
If this happened to you, would you still want them to make decisions for you? Do you want your adult children to make medical decisions for you? What if your spouse and children disagree on what type of treatment(s) you should receive? When faced with an emergency, please consider having your medical Power of Attorney already in place.
What happens if you don’t have a Medical Power of Attorney?
There are many situations that can arise when you become incapacitated or have a healthcare emergency. Even if it seems unlikely that your spouse would be disinterested in your health, it’s important to remember that your spouse may have trouble thinking clearly in an emergency or may also be seeking medical care. A medical Power of Attorney with an agent that is capable of making medical decisions, even in an emergency, can lower the risk and confusion regarding your medical decisions.
What is a Medical Power of Attorney and why you need one.
A medical Power of Attorney, also known as a Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare, is a document that allows you to appoint someone as an “agent” to make decisions about your health care. This agent will make decisions on your behalf if you become too ill or incapacitated. A medical Power of Attorney ensures that your wishes will be followed. We have an experienced estate planning and probate attorney here in Nashville who can help you customize these decisions and record how choices will be made.
Choose someone you trust to make medical decisions for you.
How to choose the best Agent for your situation
When you are choosing your medical agent for your Medical Power of Attorney, it is important that you choose someone you can trust to adhere to your preferences regarding your medical care. Discuss your wishes with your agent before they need to make any care decisions. Make sure that you have confidence that your Agent will make the right decisions about things you two have not discussed.
Don’t wait to create your medical POA.
Conclusion: Why everyone needs a Medical Power of Attorney
It is important to think about what you would want in a medical emergency. Do you want your spouse to always make decisions for you?
Designate ONE person authorized to make decisions for you if you are unable to make or communicate your wishes. Even if you want your spouse to make those decisions, it’s always a good idea to have a “backup” person. This backup person can help out with decision-making in case your spouse is unavailable when someone needs to step in.
Whatever you decide, you should have a Medical Power of Attorney. Write your power of attorney in conjunction with your advanced directive (also known as a living will). All of these documents are an important part of a well-thought-out estate plan.
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