by April Harris Jackson | Sep 24, 2025 | Estate Plan, Heirs and Beneficiaries, Last Will and Testament
Knowing a few common terms can go a long way in understanding estate planning. For example, if you’re unsure what a trustee and an executor are, you won’t know who to choose for each (very important) role.
Let’s dive into some estate planning basics!
Common Estate Planning Terms
Planning for your estate after death helps secure the future of your assets and helps you figure out what you want and how to accomplish it. Creating an estate plan gives you peace of mind that your wishes will be respected upon your passing – even if your loved ones may be unhappy about it.
An estate plan can also reduce tax obligations for your family and prevent or minimize family conflicts. A will is a significant part of the estate planning process. Wills outline how you want your assets to be distributed, who should take care of any dependents, and who will carry out your wishes.
When learning about estate planning, there are some terms you’ll need to know, including:
- Probate – the court process that validates wills and administers the estate
- Executor/Executrix – the person named in a will to manage estate assets
- Trust – a legal tool used for managing assets, often in order to avoid probate
- Trustee – the person named in a trust to manage trust assets
- Intestate succession – a situation where no will exists, and heirs are determined by state law
- Personal Representative – the person who administers an estate (this is the umbrella term used in Tennessee for executors, etc.)
- Guardian – a person who is named to oversee the needs of a minor child
- Beneficiary – someone who is specifically named to inherit
- Heir – someone who inherits based on their family relationship
Understanding these terms will help you make decisions that protect your legacy.
Creating a Will and Trust
Creating an estate plan can involve the use of wills and trusts.
A will outlines how you want your assets to be distributed after death, who should take care of your children, and who will handle the administration of your estate. However, the purpose of a will is to go to probate. When drafting a will it’s crucial to consider factors such as family dynamics, non-probate assets, and the potential for disputes.
On the other hand, trusts provide added benefits like privacy and flexibility. When well-funded, it bypasses the need for probate proceedings. Even without lots of funding, trusts enable you to better control how your assets are managed during your lifetime and after you pass away.
Whether you choose to have a will or trust is a personal decision, but setting up a trust can offer advantages such as increased control over asset distribution, continuity in managing your estate affairs, and potential tax benefits. Sometimes, it’s a good idea to have both!
Appointing Executors and Trustees
If your estate plan involves a will or trust, it is crucial to appoint executors and trustees.
An executor (or personal representative) is responsible for carrying out the terms of the will. For example, an executor must distribute assets and handle obligations during the probate process. It is important to choose someone with integrity, conflict-resolution skills, and financial knowledge. Since you won’t be there to smooth out any disputes that arise, choosing a capable peacemaker is a must.
Trustees, on the other hand, oversee trusts. They ensure that assets are managed according to your instructions for the benefit of beneficiaries. It is advisable to select a trustee with expertise in finance who’s committed to fulfilling your wishes. In other words, pick someone you can trust as your trustee.
Good options for executors or trustees may include attorneys or financial institutions, since they are generally impartial and have specialized knowledge. By ensuring reliable individuals or entities fill these roles, you can safeguard your intentions for properly managing your estate.
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by April Harris Jackson | Sep 3, 2025 | Elder Law, Estate Plan, Family, Heirs and Beneficiaries, Last Will and Testament, Money, Probate, Trusts
When you aren’t clear about your wishes, you leave a blank space for your loved ones to try to fill in. This can be incredibly stressful to them – even if you’ve expressed your wishes to them but didn’t write them down – so it’s important to know your wishes ahead of time. Learn what could happen to you if you don’t make your wishes known.
What Happens if You Become Incapacitated in Tennessee?
If you become incapacitated in Tennessee (a temporary coma, for instance,) and have no medical power of attorney set, your loved ones may have to go to court and then a judge will decide who can make medical decisions for you if you’re unable to communicate your wishes.
Trying to determine your wishes after you can no longer express them can be an extremely stressful time for your family, which is why it’s so important to communicate your wishes ahead of time, just in case anything happens to you.
What Happens if You Die without a Will or Trust in Tennessee?
If you die without a will, that is called “intestate.” This means that whatever inheritance you leave behind, including your property, is subject to Tennessee intestate succession laws. Intestate laws typically leave your property to your surviving spouse and/or children, but parents, siblings, nieces, and nephews could become eligible too.
Here’s a quick breakdown of what would happen in Tennessee if you are married or have children:
- If you have a spouse but no children, the spouse would inherit your entire estate, even if you’re separated.
- If you have a spouse and children, the estate would be divided equally among all parties (except that the spouse can receive no less than 33% of the overall estate).
- If you only have children, your estate would be split equally among all the children.
Keep in mind that only your biological and adopted children will inherit from you if you do not have a will. If you would like to leave part of your estate to step-children, foster children, godchildren, or other children who are close to your heart, you’ll want to make plans for that in your will or through non-probate beneficiary designations.
Here’s what would happen if you died unmarried and without children:
- If you have a parent, the entire estate would go to your parent(s).
- If you have sibling(s) but no living parents, the estate will be split equally among your siblings.
- If you have no parents or siblings, the estate will be split equally among your siblings’ children.
- If you’ve none of the above, the estate would be split equally among paternal and maternal aunts and uncles.
You don’t have to die to see how this one might end if you don’t write your decisions out!
Who Makes Funeral Decisions if You Die in Tennessee?
Similar to the above, if no one has been legally designated to make funeral decisions on their loved one’s behalf, it falls to the next-of-kin, which would be the spouse or adult children. Once the family member takes responsibility for making and paying for their loved one’s funeral arrangements, they sign a legal contract that obligates the funeral home to follow instructions from that family member alone.
Make sure you tell your family what you want so there’s a consensus during a difficult time..
What if there are no next of kin?
If there are no next of kin (as defined above) and no personal representative, any other person willing to assume responsibility and arrange the funeral (including the funeral director) can make funeral decisions, after attesting that a good faith effort has been made. As for your estate, if no family can be found it will ultimately be turned over to unclaimed property.
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by April Harris Jackson | Aug 6, 2025 | Estate Plan
It is well known that probate in Tennessee can be costly and has the potential to be very time-consuming. Many look for loopholes in the system as an attempt to shorten or eliminate the probate process. Some believe that adding their child’s name to their bank accounts or even placing their child’s name on their property deed can help speed the process along. While this strategy might give your child quicker access to money and could potentially help transfer ownership of your property faster after you pass, as a Davidson County estate planning lawyer, I warn that it is likely to cause headaches in the long run. Here are just a few things to consider before taking this action.
1. Your Child Has a Say in Important Decisions
By adding your child’s name to your deed, you have named them as a joint owner of the property. This creates a need for both parties to be in agreement regarding the sale or refinance of said property while you are still alive. The potential for intense family conflict exists if you and your child are not on the same page.
2. Sharing Creditors
Before deciding to add your child to your assets as joint owner, you must have a comprehensive understanding of your child’s credit situation. If they are in financial trouble, you could be at risk if you add them to your accounts. That’s because when you share ownership of assets, your child’s creditors could come after your assets for payment. Or, if your child is sued or gets a divorce, half of your assets could be up for the taking!
3. Your final wishes may not be honored.
Having your child named as joint owner of your assets makes them the sole owner when you pass. Regardless of any verbal agreement with your child as to how you want your assets distributed, they will have complete authority over such decisions. This could be a problem if you have other children or you have specific wishes about how you want your assets split up when you are gone. Legally, your child who becomes the sole owner of your property does not have to share a penny with anyone else.
The good news is that there are safer and more efficient ways to help your children avoid probate without encountering some of the drawbacks and problems detailed above. Consider talking to a Davidson County estate planning attorney before taking the step of adding your child’s name to your assets. We can help you get started. Contact us at (615) 846–6201 or click this link to set up a consultation with April.
by April Harris Jackson | Jul 9, 2025 | Estate Plan
If you plan on leaving money to minor children in your Last Will and Testament, you’ll have an important issue to consider: Who will be in charge of managing the inheritance and keeping the child’s money safe from being lost or squandered if the parents pass away?
Estate planning is often easier for married couples in this situation. One spouse leaves everything to the other spouse, and the surviving parent will take care of the children. But what happens if something happens to both parents, either at the same time or within a short span of time?
Unfortunately, a Nashville Will lawyer can tell you that there is no easy answer. Young beneficiaries usually require someone else to be named to manage their inheritance because they are legally unable (as in the case of a minor) or too immature to manage the inheritance themselves.
Parents often will ask the people named as guardians to also take responsibility for their children’s money and property. However, if you do not name anyone to manage finances for your children, the probate court will do it for you by appointing someone – perhaps a complete stranger – to serve as the children’s financial guardian. The financial guardian selected by the probate court must report frequently and has limited authority to make decisions.
It’s also important to note that, unless otherwise noted, children who are 18 or older will have complete control of the property and money left to them. That being said, you should consider raising the age at which your child gains financial responsibility to age 25 or older. This reduces the risk of your child’s inheritance being mismanaged or lost.
A Revocable Living Trust is often the best way to manage your children’s inheritance so that they do not receive a lump sum of money before they are mature enough to handle it. A Revocable Living Trust allows you to raise the age or layout key milestones in which the children receive their money. It also allows you to specify a trustee who oversees the distribution of funds to your children according to your wishes for their future and how their inheritance is to be spent.
If you have any questions about naming a person to manage a minor child’s finances, or if you are interested in learning more about setting up a Revocable Living Trust, please give our law firm a call at (615) 846–6201 or click this link to set up a consultation with our Nashville will lawyer.
by April Harris Jackson | May 25, 2025 | Estate Plan, Family, Last Will and Testament
Families today come in many beautiful and diverse forms. Whether you’re part of a blended family, a queer couple raising children, or a co-parenting arrangement that doesn’t fit the traditional mold, estate planning becomes especially important—and sometimes, a little more complicated.
One question that comes up frequently is whether a second-parent adoption is necessary or recommended. Here’s what you need to know—and how to decide if it’s the right move for your family.
What Is Second-Parent Adoption?
Second-parent adoption is a legal process where one parent adopts their partner’s biological or legally adopted child without terminating the first parent’s legal rights. It’s commonly used in families where both parents are raising a child, but only one is legally recognized as the parent under state law.
For example, in some states, if a child is born to a married same-sex couple, both spouses are not automatically recognized as legal parents. If a child is born through assisted reproductive technology, the non-biological parent may not be on the birth certificate. In blended families, a stepparent may be acting as a full-time parent without any legal status. Without legal parental rights, the second parent may have no say in medical decisions, no custody rights in the event of separation, and no automatic inheritance rights without a proper estate plan.
Why Legal Recognition Matters
Even if your day-to-day family life functions seamlessly, legal recognition ensures your parental role is protected—especially in moments of crisis. A second-parent adoption:
- Grants full parental rights, including custody and decision-making power
- Allows the child to inherit automatically if something happens to you
- Gives your child legal access to benefits like Social Security or health insurance through you
It can also protect your family if you move to a state with different laws or face challenges from extended family members in times of stress or grief.
Alternatives and Supplements to Adoption
Second-parent adoption isn’t the only tool available. Depending on your state and circumstances, other legal documents can help:
- Wills can appoint guardians for minor children.
- Custody or parenting agreements can be drafted to reflect your roles and expectations.
- Healthcare proxies and powers of attorney ensure your partner can make decisions in an emergency.
Still, none of these carry the same weight or permanence as legal parentage through adoption.
Is Second-Parent Adoption Right for You?
It depends on several factors:
- Your state laws: Some states automatically recognize both parents in a marriage or civil union, others do not.
- Your family structure: Are you co-parenting with a former partner? Are you a step-parent raising a child from a prior relationship?
- Your long-term goals: Do you want your partner or spouse to have full parental rights in every legal sense?
An experienced estate planning attorney can help you and your blended family understand the landscape and weigh your options.
Final Thoughts
Every family deserves the peace of mind that comes from knowing your legal rights match your lived reality. Whether it’s through second-parent adoption, estate planning tools, or both, we’re here to help you build a plan that fits your unique family.If you have questions about your next steps, let’s talk. Click here to schedule an initial call today!
